When you feel stressed, it’s hard to get past whatever has you feeling that way. It’s almost like there is something blocking your path. It’s near impossible to get over it, so you try and force your way past, to no effect. It is hard to keep your energy as you try to continue on your way.
Around your chosen path, there may be a detour. One that takes you round the obstacle, and can get you moving again in the direction you want.
I have made a decision about where I am, and I am going to make a pretty big change. That change means that I don’t know what’s going to happen in the not to distant future. But do you know something? I am excited. I feel so happy that I could do something different. And I don’t mind what that difference is.